ONLINE DATING

2008-02-20T10:22:00.006-05:00

IN TODAY'S FAST PACED CULTURE OF INSTANT COMMUNICATION, IT SEEMS THAT YOUNG SINGLES ARE FINDING IT HARDER THAN EVER TO MAKE A CONNECTION.

And with text messaging and e-mail becoming the primary source of communication for so many young adults, it's apparent that the old ways of dating and romance are quickly on their way out, being replaced by "hanging out" or "hooking up."

Bronx resident Heather , 20, said it's commonplace today for people to turn to technology to get dates.

"Hardly anyone goes out on dates anymore," she said. "It's always just, 'Do you want to come over and watch a movie?'"

She knows all too well the trends appearing in the dating scene from first-hand experience, as she's been asked out several times via text message.

"People say that technology is the key to communication, but in dating it's definitely a barrier," she said.

Burton isn't the only one feeling that technology has created some major roadblocks when it comes to finding people who are looking for the same things in a relationship.
Grantsville resident Scott Johnson, 25, said dating has gotten a lot harder in the last couple of years with the online dating and text messaging craze.

"It seems like it's a different generation and it's getting harder to date," he said. "It seems everyone is moving away from one-on-one conversations and being personal."
Even when a text message or online invitation results in an actual planned date, it can often end up being played down to just hanging out.

"People don't want to put the time and effort into dating anymore," Johnson said.

"It's just a casual thing. I also think some people just don't want that responsibility or commitment."

Singles also commented that asking people to "hang out" in lieu of going on a date decreases the risk of being turned down by someone they're interested in.

"I think people feel like it's easier to hang out because then if you get rejected, you feel like it was at a friendship level instead of being rejected at that relationship level," Burton said.

Although Burton said guys think they are more at risk when it comes to the rejection factor, it takes a little bravery on both sides to just tell the truth.

"As much guts as it takes for a guy to ask a girl out on a date, it takes just as much courage to say no if I don't really want to go," she said.

Brian Jackson, 21, is an Erda resident who said opting out of traditional dating happens just because of the fact that it's so much easier. He said he also dislikes that physical affection seems to be taking place more just between friends with no commitment or romantic feelings for one another.

"It almost seems to me that physical affection has been cheapened," he said. "I always thought that if you kissed someone, that meant that you had feelings for one another, but it seems like that's not necessarily true anymore."

The whole process seems to kick romance out the back door and leaves plenty of room for misinterpretation on all sides.

"People are afraid to be honest and it just leads to more confusion," Burton said. "I just don't know why people are so afraid to tell people what they want and what they feel."

That big break in communication isn't the only thing standing in the way of young singles finding meaningful relationships. Many said it's hard to find the time since they are trying to succeed in school or a career.

"People are always on the go," Johnson said.

Dealing with the circumstances of the single life can be frustrating at times, but some say they wouldn't have it any other way.

"I love having the opportunity to date because it gives me time to discover the qualities that I want for a future relationship," Johnson said. "My purpose of dating is eventually to find someone that I can spend the rest of my life with, and I don't want to rush into anything."

(37) WHY HE DUMPED YOU

2008-02-04T21:49:00.000-05:00

12 WAYS TO GET BACK ON TRACK

There's probably not a woman living who hasn’t been left by some louse she once loved. And usually, without explanation or proper closure.

Void of needed answers, she questions herself.

"Was I pretty enough?"

"Thin enough?"

"Good enough?"

Crushed from the experience, she typically becomes bitter, guarded, less confident, and less trusting in her next dating encounter. This, ironically, makes the search for Mr. Right even longer and laced with disappointment.

What many sisters would be surprised to discover, is very seldom are they at fault for a lover’s exit. Men don’t always make decisions based on logic or even emotions. As attested to in Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus, they don’t think like we do.

In the spirit of enlightenment, I interviewed some bachelors who have dumped love interests for reasons as flimsy as cheap lingerie.

Here's What They Said And What You Need to Know:
Richard (age 45) Writer"She was getting too close. She actually made me consider giving up my freedom--- settle down. I got scared so I just stopped calling."

Melvin (38) Salesman"The timing was off. I met her when I was on the rebound. She was real sweet and treated me well. But, when my former lady decided to make up with me, I realized I wasn’t over her, and jumped at the opportunity."

Lamar (29) Musician"Our religious differences were just too vast. She was into pleasing God more than pleasing me."

Ken (50) Educator"Her public displays of affection turned me off and made me uncomfortable."

Daryl (59) Arts Activist"I like variety, I wanted to sleep around."

Lonny (25) Executive"I woke up one morning and my spirit moved me in a different direction."

Breaking up is hard to do, particularly when it makes no sense, or comes unexpectedly. But that doesn’t mean you should go around with a bowed head and broken spirit!

According to the best-selling book, Smart Women, Foolish Choices written by Dr. Cowan and Dr. Kinder, “A woman must never give a man the power to determine how she feels about herself. No person should have that sort of power. Not under any circumstance. And yet we have seen scores of women left feeling worthless because a man has rejected them.”

So if you’re tired of being in pain and giving up your power,here's how to get back on track!
1. Love Yourself FirstI know it sounds a little cliché, but it’s true. Self-esteem serves as a buffer for the many harsh blows of life and love. If you see yourself as a loving, beautiful, deserving woman, ultimately the mate you attract will share this view as well.

2. Resist Becoming a "Fatal Attraction"Breaking his car windows, burning his clothes, or calling his job, may appear to even the score, but actually you'll lose. Namely your dignity, power, and sense of peace. Exit like a lady. You’ll stay on his mind longer.

3. Realize That Rejection is More About His Issues and Less About Yours.What do his past relationships say about the type of man he is? For example, If you’ve dated a middle-aged man who’s never been married before, chances are he may have some commitment phobias.

4. Have Selective MemoryChoose to remember the good times.

5. Recognize That Healing is a Process and it Takes TimeFor every individual the time for grieving varies.

6. Seek SupportThis is when you need to surround yourself with friends and positive people. Talk and take pointers from those who‘ve “been there”.

7. Get a Life!Indulge in neglected hobbies that you once enjoyed before he took up your time. Travel, pamper yourself, expand your horizons.

8. Lighten UpDon’t blame or berate yourself. Try to see the humor in some aspect of your situation. Keep in mind that it could be worse.

9. Learn The Lesson! Behind every hurtful event, there’s usually a valuable lesson. My last break up taught me to have fewer expectations, not to settle for less than I deserve, and never be involved with someone who doesn’t value what I “uniquely” have to offer.

10. Hold Onto Christ in Your Crisis!

11. Remember That "The Best Revenge is a Good Life"

12. Keep Your Spirits and Your Appearance Up

Mr. Right could be right around the corner…

(36) CHRISTMAS DATE WITH SOMEONE YOU MET ONLINE

2007-12-24T14:23:00.000-05:00

You got together over the weekend for a pre-Christmas date with someone that you met online. You'd gone out a few times before but you didn't think that things were serious. It didn't even occur to you that you might be at the point of exchanging Christmas gifts. But then you showed up and your date had a gift in hand. This can be a really uncomfortable moment but it doesn't have to be. If you're left standing there empty-handed, you may feel guilty for not having thought to be something. You might feel embarassed that you didn't hold up your end of the gift exchange. But the fact of the matter is that your date felt compelled to get you something for the holiday and that has nothing to do with whether or not you bought something in return.

The thing to do in this situation is mind your manners. Say thank you. Ask your date if you should open the gift there or at home on Christmas morning. Then go on with the rest of the date. At the end of the date, say thanks again for the thoughtfulness of getting the gift. Don't apologize for not having gotten something for your date.

Once you're home, you can think about whether or not you want to do something about the gift or just let sleeping dogs lie. There are a few things that you might want to do. Scenario one is that the gift is way too personal for where you thought the relationship was at and it warrants a talk about the relationship in a few days. Scenario two is that the gift is nice and you like it but that's it; in which case you say thanks again when you go on another date. Scenario three is that you really do wish that you'd bought something for your date and you get something belatedly to make up for it.

And what if you're the one who bought a gift and didn't receive anything? Hopefully you bought it because you wanted to do so, not because you were expecting something in exchange. Don't act awkward or weird about it. Just explain that you thought of something that you wanted to give your date.Christmas gift exchanges are awkward for people who have just started dating. Hell, they can be awkward for people who have been together a long time. But they don't have to be. Be polite and kind to one another; that's what the season is all about.

(35) CHRISTMAS WEEKEND DATE IDEAS

2007-12-21T20:37:00.000-05:00

Christmas weekend is a terrific weekend to go on a date. It gives you a chance to have a bit of romance this holiday season while still leaving Christmas Eve and Christmas Day free. This means you can keep plans with the friends and family who have played such an important role in your life without having to miss out on the fun of holiday dating.

Here are some Christmas weekend date ideas you might want to try:-

Looking at the Christmas lights. If you know someone from online well enough to feel safe in their car, go for a late night drive to look at the lights sparkling on houses in neighborhoods near you. This brings out the magic of Christmas and gives you ample time for conversation. If you don't know anyone well enough for that, you can meet in a shopping district or busy neighborhood and walk around to see the lights.

CHRISTMAS BAKING
Again, if you've gone on a few dates with someone from online and you're comfortable with being alone in a house with them, take advantage of the chance to do some holiday baking together this weekend. Chocolate is an aphrodisiac after all.

SHOPPING
You both probably have some gifts left to buy before Tuesday so why not do that shopping together? It sure beats battling the crowds on your end. Keep the stores you go to at a minimum so that the time is enjoyed rather than stressful.

ICE SKATING
What a terrific winter date! There are ice skating rinks set up all over the nation right now so get out there and get your shaky legs into the dating pond.

MEET FOR HOT CHOCOLATE
If you're going on a date with someone new, forego the usual coffee date and get hot chocolate instead. Even if it's not your normal cup of tea, it's something holiday-ish that will make the weekend feel more special.

EXPLORE SOMETHING FROM YOUR PAST
Yes, the past can be loaded but you've got lots of great memories that you can share with someone you're dating. Christmas is a time for a little nostalgia. Go do something that reminds you of a time you loved. It might get even better when it's re-visited with a new date.

(34) WHY YOU SHOULD GIVE ONLINE DATING A TRY

2007-12-06T22:08:00.000-05:00

Online dating sites vary. Online dating is simply a dating service that is possible to use on the Internet. As more people get online, there are companies ever more eager to jump on the dating business. Joining a free adult dating site for women and men is about getting to know someone and then seeing if you enjoy spending time with them, so bear this in mind when you online dating give a try.

Whether you are actively dating or just getting back into dating, online dating can provide a world full of opportunities. Take your time with the process. Don’t let anyone rush you. You are not committed to meeting anyone. You need to choose from the numerous sites that offer online dating and personals. There are many online dating sites that have very short sign-up procedures and others you have to answer lots of questions. If you are joining a dating site, take the time to say something about yourself, your lifestyle, your interests and the type of person you’re hoping to meet.

If you have recently become single what better way to meet new people than to go online and meet more people. You’ll get many opinions about the effectiveness of online dating. In order to enjoy and succeed at online dating you have to remember a few rules.

(33) Online Dating Can Be Tough

2007-10-28T22:06:00.000-04:00

Here’s a little secret that those of the female persuasion keep from us guys: Women, even very beautiful women, like to be approached by a confident and interesting man. Are you surprised? It’s true…and confident and interesting are much more important than looks to ladies of all ages, too. That’s true for internet dating, as well as, dating in your brick and mortar world but we’re talking about internet dating here…so back to the subject at hand.

Once you have joined an online dating service, you will find that there a lot more men than women and that the men are much more likely to browse profiles and make initial contacts than women. Yes, it’s a woman’s world…still. It’s “traditional” for men to make the first move. It always has been and it always will be. Some things never change. That’s why your profile and picture are so important.

Remember…confident and interesting….and that does not translate to cocky and self-centered. It’s important that your profile lets people know that you have friends you care about and that you are passionately interested in a variety of things…not JUST sports. Another thing about that all-important profile….please don’t start it with, “I’m the guy your mama warned you about”.

You will have just shot yourself in the foot with that line. Another one to never use is, “I could be the man of your dreams”. The lady HOPES you are but she will be the judge of that…so don’t insult her intelligence. Remember….exude confidence and interesting and you will find that lady you have been looking for…or she will find you.

Won’t it be nice to have the ladies contacting you instead of you having to do everything? If you write a great profile that stands out in the crowd, that will happen.

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(32) Tips for staying safe on social-networking sites

2007-10-28T21:53:00.000-04:00

SAN FRANCISCO (MarketWatch) -- The rise of social-networking brings the convergence of your personal life with your work life online.

People who participate on sites such as Facebook and MySpace are more likely to be sharing inside information with people who, before, they may have only passed the time of day with. See full story.

Tips to protect your reputation, and your identity:
(1) Look for tools that allow you to restrict access to your profile. On MySpace you can set your profile to "private," as well as all or a portion of your photos. On Facebook the "limited profile" function lets you essentially create a profile that's less personal for certain friends, while still maintaining a more in-depth profile for others.

(2) Limit the degree to which you associate your online profile with work. While it makes sense to network online, if you start entering forums and conversations on diverse, more personal topics, consider whether your company name will be associated with your name. On Facebook, for instance, you can set your geographic network, rather than your workplace network, as your primary network so when you post messages to forums your name is connected to your city, not your employer, said Lee Aase, who writes a weblog about Facebook. Read his blog.

(3) Don't alert people that you're leaving town. "I don't tell people I'm away," said Graham Cluley, senior technology consultant with Sophos, a computer security company. "I wait until I get back and then say, 'Graham Cluley is back from Boston.'"

(4) Be careful about whom you agree to "friend." "Be selective. I've come across people in Facebook who claim to have over 1,500 friends," Cluley said. "You can't possibly be friends with all of these people."

(5) Think twice about what you're posting. "If you're not prepared to stand in the middle of Times Square and shout this information, then don't post it on the Internet," Cluley said. Don't include your home address, for instance.

(6) On Facebook, every time you join a network, adjust your privacy settings to ensure you don't reveal all to everyone in that network. Sophos found that 75% of people in geographic networks allowed their profile to be viewed by another person on that network, Cluley said.

Tips for staying safe on social-networking sites

2007-10-28T21:47:00.000-04:00

Whether you're an entrepreneur or an electrician, an executive or executive assistant, if you want to post a profile and "friend" people online, heed the tips below to ensure your online reputation doesn't hinder your offline life.

Tips to protect your reputation, and your identity:

(1) Look for tools that allow you to restrict access to your profile. On MySpace you can set your profile to "private," as well as all or a portion of your photos. On Facebook the "limited profile" function lets you essentially create a profile that's less personal for certain friends, while still maintaining a more in-depth profile for others.

(2) Limit the degree to which you associate your online profile with work. While it makes sense to network online, if you start entering forums and conversations on diverse, more personal topics, consider whether your company name will be associated with your name. On Facebook, for instance, you can set your geographic network, rather than your workplace network, as your primary network so when you post messages to forums your name is connected to your city, not your employer, said Lee Aase, who writes a weblog about Facebook. Read his blog.

(3) Don't alert people that you're leaving town. "I don't tell people I'm away," said Graham Cluley, senior technology consultant with Sophos, a computer security company. "I wait until I get back and then say, 'Graham Cluley is back from Boston.'"

(4) Be careful about whom you agree to "friend." "Be selective. I've come across people in Facebook who claim to have over 1,500 friends," Cluley said. "You can't possibly be friends with all of these people."

(5) Think twice about what you're posting. "If you're not prepared to stand in the middle of Times Square and shout this information, then don't post it on the Internet," Cluley said. Don't include your home address, for instance.

(6) On Facebook, every time you join a network, adjust your privacy settings to ensure you don't reveal all to everyone in that network. Sophos found that 75% of people in geographic networks allowed their profile to be viewed by another person on that network, Cluley said.

(31) Nice Guys Do It, Too!

2007-10-22T22:52:00.000-04:00

I’m talking about online dating, of course. When the phenomenon of online dating sites started several years ago, they were a haven for perverts, sexual predators, nerds, and weirdoes of assorted varieties.

That is just no longer the case. All the stigma of online dating is gone. Online dating has gone main stream and is, not only acceptable, but expected. Online dating has become the primary tool of single people of all ages to generate an interesting and rewarding social life.

Let’s face it…we are busy guys. We just simply do not have the time, the energy, or the financial where-with-all to date several nights each week while we look for the “one”. You can sort through hundreds of profiles in a month for less money than you would spend on one evening out, thus, saving time and money. We use the internet to save ourselves time and money for a lot of things like investments, shopping, medical information, and communications.

Why not make use of such a useful tool for our social and personal lives as well? You could find the love of your life. At the very least, you will meet some interesting people and possibly make some lasting friendships. It’s easy to get started. All you need is a computer and an internet connection. You’ll need to search for online dating services that meet your specific needs. They are many and varied.

Join one or two. Then you’ll need to write a great profile, upload a recent picture of yourself and start making and answering contacts. That really is all there is to it…that and patience.

Don’t wait any longer to start your new and interesting social life. Miss or Ms. “Right” could be only a few clicks of the mouse away.

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(30) Online Dating -- Five Things to Avoid

2007-10-21T14:21:00.000-04:00

Everyone's doing it - over 40 percent of U.S. singles are finding matches online. That's more than 40 million single Americans cruising the Internet looking for love (based on census results that say there are over 100 million single Americans). So the Internet must be a great place to find true love, right? Not so fast. While online dating can be a great way to find someone new, dating sites are littered with scam artists, cheaters, and straight-up liars. Now, this doesn't mean you should avoid online dating altogether -- just don't believe everything you see out there. In order to help sort out the winners from the losers, we've compiled a list of the top five types of online daters you should definitely avoid, along with some tips to help you save some heartache. Be careful out there, and good luck!

1. Liars

In a recent survey, it was found that most online profiles contain some sort of lie, whether it's the person's age or -- in some cases -- relationship status. White lies -- adding an inch to height or dropping a couple pounds -- are the most common and not a big deal to most people. Consider these facts according to the April 2007 issue of Proceedings of Computer/Human Interaction.

About 52.6 percent of men lie about their height, as do 39 percent of women.

Slightly more women lie about their weight (64.1 percent) than men (60.5 percent).

When it comes to age, 24.3 percent men lie compared with 13.1 percent of women.

When it comes to misrepresenations of age or relationship status, be careful or you could get seriously burned. In one recent case, a woman met a man on a popular dating site with whom she immediately hit it off. She even put her life on hold to go with him to Dubai when he was transferred for work. Eleven months into the relationship, she came across an e-mail -- from his son! What's more, the e-mail said something about "Mom" saying hi. In one fell swoop, our poor girl found out the man she met online was not only a father -- he was married! She moved back to the United States and has given up on online dating since.

How to Avoid Them:

Ask questions. Though it may be listed on someone's profile, someone's age is fair game in the questions department, so feel free to ask your potential date how old (or young!) they are. You may find that 35 suddenly becomes 42. While you don't want to ask too many questions and scare the person away, it's perfectly fair to verify the big things: age, weight, height, and -- most of all -- whether or not that person is, in fact, single. Half the time, people lie on their profiles to get people interested -- nine times out of ten, someone will level with you about their stats once you show some real interest, since they know they might have a chance of meeting you in person.

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(29) Ask the Right Questions First

2007-10-19T22:37:00.000-04:00

OK. You have joined a couple of dating services and written a killer profile. You’ve uploaded a good picture and now you are going to chat with a contact. What now? How do you start separating those who have real potential and those who don’t have any potential at all? You need to find out something about who this strange woman really is and not just who she wants you to believe she is. It would be nice if women wore labels like “Gold Digger” or “Daddy’s girl”….but they don’t so it’s up to you to find these things out and you can’t just ask direct questions. You need to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how to impress this lady if you decide you want to do that.

After you are past the initial small talk, ask her, “What are the biggest mistakes guys make when dating online?” Listen carefully to her answers. She’s going to tell you a lot about herself and her views on men in general.

Next you should ask her, “What do you really think about online dating?” Now she will tell you if she has had any bad experiences dating o line and help you to avoid making the same things wrong.

Now for the all-important one…..”What caused the break up in your last relationship?” If she puts all the blame on the guy, you should probably move on to the next prospect. If she takes all the blame herself, you should probably do the same. If she says the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn’t right for either of them, you’ve heard the right answer. Move forward but always with caution.

Asking the right questions will give you insight and make you more confident when you meet the lady for the first time.

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(28) A Man's Secrets to Successful Online Dating

2007-10-18T22:16:00.000-04:00

People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to water…because it works…or, at least, it can work. Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online. All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen…and, I must say, they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That’s not only wise but vital. So what’s a nice guy to do? You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for “the” girl for you.

You must be patient. Don’t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don’t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.

Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one.

A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head.

Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she bring a friend with her. After all, you have nothing to hide. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.

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(27) Online Dating Tips

2007-10-15T18:25:00.000-04:00

Yes, as long as we breathe, we live as social creatures. We have this innate longing for companion- for someone to talk to, to listen, to comfort. Even the person who people think to be cold has another individual by his or her side. When one feels alone, it is like all the ghosts of life haunt him or her. All the emptiness tend to grow when one has nobody to call his or hers.

Many resort to Online Dating. The web offers numerous websites where you could meet, make friends, and, have relationship with persons who are registered in these websites. You just do not know what story of friendship or love awaits you. When you are single, with that it means you may be someone really single, divorced, widow, widower- online dating is there. Just like any kind of dating, one needs to equip his or her self with the different tips needed to make the most out of it.

There are these traditional dating strategies that work out and will always work out:
For women, it is not commendable to so assertive and goes after the men they want or like. Waiting for that man and being discreet is a better way. As to men, playing as if the “timid” one who is just too shy when it comes to meeting and interacting with the opposite sex is not good at all. Let go of the confidence and look for that girl you want.

Talking about sexual topics when you do not know your date yet that well is not good at all. Verbal foreplay will just let the two of you focus on this aspect, get carried away and forget about the more important sides of the newly-found bond. This must be avoided another thing is not to have a sexual relationship before being committed. This would also be the one that will destroy the one which was established.

Stay true and be yourself as you are on the process of online dating. This will enable both of you to know each other really well and know if you are compatible with each other. The more you pretend, the more the relationship will grow weak in the future.

If you are afraid of getting hurt again, never test your partner if he or she has the capacity to do it to you too. This is very unhealthy for the relationship. Moreover, do not expect a lot and be disappointed easily. Every person is unique so do not let the other person be who you want her or him to be.

The best tip is this: to enjoy every moment and to get to know and eventually grow in love without the pressure of making everything the way you only want it to be.

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(26) Popular Online Dating Activities

2007-10-08T21:57:00.000-04:00

All types of everyday activities are growing in popularity online these days like sharing photos and greeting cards. In fact, both of these even go hand in hand with online dating opportunities, one of the most popular online activities for singles today.

Before actually meeting in person, many dates get acquainted online first.

Here’s how.

PHOTOS

As a wonderful keepsake of your budding romance, create an online photo album for your new cyber-mate. Include digital photos of favorite outdoor scenes, pets, flowers, cars, silly moments, your computer corner or laptop, etc. Then you’ll even have more to discuss during online dates via emails and chat rooms. Search for “photo albums” to find places that store your photos.

GREETING CARDS

Regardless of where the person lives, you can mail a greeting card. If privacy and security is an issue, check into renting an inexpensive P.O. Box (check the Yellow Pages). You do not have to be an artist to make something homemade and special for the new friend in your life. Even making a special, personalized greeting card would be appreciated and show your date that you care enough to take the time needed to make something by hand. Search your favorite search engine for online greeting cards to send, too. They range from free to low cost and can be sent in a click.

So get online and get active! No need to risk meeting in person until you get more familiar with each other online first.

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(25) Tips for Singles to Enjoy Life After Retirement

2007-10-08T21:42:00.000-04:00

If you are single and a retired baby boomer, here are a few tips for enjoying life after retirement:

Take Up Activities:

You could take up activities that are new to you and have never tried before, or those that you have always enjoyed but never had the time for. For example, you could join painting classes or creative writing classes, if you have a creative bent of mind. Or, pursue some sporting activities like golf or tennis. Or why not pick up stimulating games like bridge or bingo? Most retirement communities have facilities where the members can pursue the sports or games of their choice. Many of them even conduct tournaments, which is a good way of keeping the spirit of competition alive.

Start Dating Again:

One of the best ways to stay optimistic in life is to make new friends or even develop a new love life. While it can be fairly intimidating for many people to get back into the dating game at this stage of their lives, however, the companionship and fun are worth making that daunting leap. With the advent of online dating services, many older singles are finding it more comfortable than ever to start dating again. Most older singles find the idea of meeting prospective dating partners through the Internet easier because they can do it in a relaxed, non-threatening manner from their own homes. There are many websites that are meant especially for seniors where dating classifieds can be placed, either for free or by paying a nominal fee.

Take Up Charity Work:

Look for the kind of charity work that you find suitable through charitable organizations. You could help out older people with their household chores, or deliver meals or books to them, or perhaps read to them a few times in a week. This will not only mean your getting out from the confines of your home, but also will make you feel useful and good about being of help to a needy person. Keep in mind, some day you too could need somebody’s help.

Research On Some Topic:

You could take up a topic that you are interested in, research on it, put it all down in writing and create an e-book which you can sell online. Gaining knowledge keeps you mentally stimulated. The Internet is a great source of all kinds of information on practically endless topics. So, you can do it in the comfort of your home. Or, if you prefer, got to your local library and do your research from there.

Working From Home:

There is really no dearth of jobs that you can do from home. You can earn money online by being an affiliate, Ebay seller, or a drop-shipper. You could take care of the homes of people away on holidays. Walking somebody’s dog, feeding other people’s pets, watering somebody’s garden, or even setting up your own library (if you have lots of books) at home are some other ways to keep yourself busy and earn some money.

The key to enjoying life as a single after retirement is to stay engaged in various activities. Retired singles who volunteered and worked, while also pursued other interests in life felt the most satisfied at this stage of their lives.

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(24) Finding Active Singles Online

2007-10-07T22:18:00.000-04:00

Are you an active person, do you find it difficult to meet other active singles? Have you ever tried looking for active singles online? When most people think of active, they think of hiking, playing sports, working out, and staying busy. Most people do not consider sitting in front of the computer as being active. But you would be amazed at how easy it is to find active singles online.

Going to active singles and fitness dating sites can be a great way to meet people that have similar interests as you. You will typically find that these dating sites are not filled with people that are constantly online. The reason for this is that they are out doing things and staying busy. But all it takes is one time to strike up a conversation and reel in the person.

As soon as you meet someone and have a casual and exciting conversation, you can set up a time to talk with them again. With many online dating sites, you can email them, instant message them, or give the person your phone number to talk with them. After being in contact with a member, you should try to set up a time to talk again.

Because active singles are busy, it is not always easy to keep in touch with someone after you have talked with them just once. However, if you show interest and express yourself, you may significantly increase your chances of speaking with them again. The results will be based off of what you put into the overall experience.

During the second conversation, talk about what kinds of things the person enjoys doing and what hobbies they have. This can be a great way to set up a date in person if you are interested in the activity as well. Active singles dating sites are great for setting up dates in person. Most everybody on these sites have similar interests and love being active.

Although it can be difficult to get in contact with active singles because of their busy lifestyle, this does not mean that every person on the site is on once every month. Sometimes you will run into people that get on every day at a certain time, but just for a short period of time. Be careful of trying to set up a date in person too quickly, because this may startle the other person. Taking things slowly is the key, take things one step at a time.

Although it may be hard to believe, active singles dating services can be a great way to find that special someone with similar interests and hobbies as you. As long as you are clear as to how you feel about them and take your time, you will be on your way to finding an active single worth your time.

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(23) Does Dating Ruins Relationships?

2007-10-07T22:03:00.000-04:00

An Oprah relationship expert says that the way most people date actually ruins relationships.

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Does Dating Ruins Relationships?

2007-10-07T21:58:00.000-04:00

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(22) More Popular Online Dating Activities

2007-10-07T13:41:00.000-04:00

A couple of popular online activities are sharing recipes and bidding at auctions. And both of these easily fit well into online dating opportunities, one of the most popular online activities for singles today.

To help many dates get better acquainted online, here’s what potential cyber-dates do.

Sharing Recipes – People get tired talking about the weather. So a popular subject to turn to is food. Sharing favorite foods and recipes helps break the ice and even forms friendships over culinary skills – or lack of – and tastes. Search your favorite search engine for “free recipes” to share. Take photos of your culinary creations and share them with your date, too.

Bidding at Auctions – Ebay auctions sell nearly anything and everything! So surf around and enter searches like the dates you were in middle school. Share cool memorabilia photos of old games and toys from when you were a child or when your parents or grandparents were little; The Dating Game, Oscar Mayer wiener whistles, The Partridge Family Album, Bobby Sherman’s Album, 45’s and more.

Online dating can be an educational and fun experience. So learn more about each other and have fun while you’re at it. Take a cyber-stroll down memory lane together and see what’s cookin’.

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(21) Dating Secrets for Men

2007-10-07T13:21:00.000-04:00

Guys are still the ones doing the chasing, even when it comes to online dating. How can a man increase his chances with the woman of his dreams? Read on to find out how you can make a hit with the ladies on any internet dating site.

What Do Women Want?

This is a question that has puzzled men since time immemorial. Knowing how and what a woman thinks is something most men will just shrug their shoulders and say, “Who knows?” There are some clues that women give to what they want if men are smart enough to pick up on. One of the most important things you can do when you begin online dating is to present an image of a confident, yet interesting fellow. It is thought that confidence and being an interesting person is far more important to the ladies than just your looks and charm.

What is She Looking for with Online Dating?

Most women who use online dating services are looking for a serious and permanent relationship. Often they will turn to online dating services to find someone who is serious about having a relationship and doesn’t just want to fool around and waste time. There are the exceptions to this, so if you are a man who is just using online dating for frequent hook-ups, you may find women into that as well. Just be sure to state your intentions when you sign up with an online dating service so no one is mislead.

Beware of Appearing Self-Centered and Cocky

There is nothing that will turn off a woman faster than a guy who appears to be full of himself. That is true for online dating as well as for dating in the real world. Girls don’t like to be around guys who think they are “all that and a bag of chips.” They do like a guy who is confident but not arrogant, they like a man who is interesting, but not just interested in himself or sex.

Don’t go on and on to a woman who has intrigued you on an online dating service about all the wonderful accomplishments you have achieved and how great and spectacular everyone thinks you are. Don’t talk too much about sports either as lots of women are not into it. Do talk about what you like to do in your spare time, how you feel about your family and your work and any goals and plans you may have for your future. A woman also wants a man who knows what he wants and is confident enough to go after it.

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(20) Your Digital Spring Date

2007-10-07T13:04:00.000-04:00

Spring could be your season to find true love online! Spring is a great time to start online dating because people are feeling energetic are looking for the chance to start a new, fresh relationship.

So, how can you find your digital date?

If you’ve never tried online dating before, you may be a bit nervous about trying it out – but there’s nothing to worry about. So many people are dating online that you’re immediately part of a big community, and good dating websites have lots of advice on how to create a good profile and how to take the first step and contact someone you’re interested in. If you’re used to emailing your friends, you can date online.

Finding your date might be a little more complicated – there are thousands of people on every dating site – but paying attention to how you write your profile, and being specific about the sort of person you’re looking for will help you to narrow down the field of possible dates. Take the time to write your profile carefully; you want to make yourself sound interesting and appealing, perhaps with a touch of humour and something that will attract the reader’s attention, like a catchy headline, or a question at the end that invites the reader to send you a contact message.

It’s also a good idea to post a good photograph to accompany your profile. Whilst you should accept that some people will contact you based only on your photo and not on your profile, most people will take the two together and it’s always good to be able to put a face to a profile.

Once you’re happy with what you’ve written and the photo you’ve chosen, post them on a dating site and wait to see what happens. In the meantime, browse through the other profiles on the site to see if there’s anyone who meets your criteria. If so, send them a brief contact message to see if they want to get in touch. It may be a different approach to finding a date, but it’s one that’s worked for thousands of people.

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(19) Growing Online Dating Relationships

2007-10-05T20:09:00.000-04:00

Just like regular real-world relationships, online relationships need tending, to grow over time.

Here are some quick growing tips.

1. Take time and make time. Does your online date get in touch with you regularly? Do you do the same? Neglecting virtual meetings can be considered abuse or neglect, so treat each other’s time with respect. If it’s lacking, might mean time to move on.

2. Communication needs to “feel” right for both of you. If one of you is too pushy about meeting, for instance, that can give off bad vibes. So don’t rush. Take time to learn more about each other and develop trust.

3. Respect each others privacy. Don’t share personal email addresses or digital photos online, for example, if your online date sent you the information in confidence.

4. Share special online and offline fun times. Online – send greeting cards, links to favorite places to upload digital photos of your favorite pet, download music and video clips, post on favorite forums of interest. Offline- if you’re exchanging addresses or post office boxes, send print greeting cards and postcards, small items from your area (like a key chain with your state bird).

Tend your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it can sprout and grow.

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(18) Finding Love Using An Online Dating Service

2007-10-05T19:49:00.000-04:00

People have been so hectic with their work that they may not even have the time to start a relationship. And with new technology, people have been buried in their computers and some don’t realize that they could actually find romance in the Internet. Well, this is what we called online dating and people who are too busy can even find romance in the Internet with just a click away.

Over the last few years, there are millions of people who have joined online dating services that could be found everywhere on the Internet. Some of these online dating services are FREE while some require a 1 time or monthly fee. So what are the advantages of joining online dating service?

Below are just some examples:

1. Most of the online dating services provide features for members to provide their personal profiles on the Internet. With the number of members increasing over the years, one could access these profiles and find someone that matches their preference.

2. In addition, one can remain anonymous during online dating and have no obligation to meet him / her if he / she is not comfortable with the other party and can stop the online dating immediately.

3. Also, with these tons of profiles available, one can then move on to another new one if the previous online dates are not successful. So, with all the available choices, when one finally finds someone that suits him / her, then he / she can decide to meet offline after they are comfortable with each other during the online dating adventure.

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(17) Establishing Online Dating Relationships: Safety First

2007-10-04T22:24:00.000-04:00

Online dating can be fun. But don’t neglect safety and common sense when you try to hook up with a mate. At minimum, take caution in the following areas.

PROTECT YOUR COMPUTER
Take care of your equipment and systems before you head out into the Internet realm. You need to have a firewall and anti-virus protection for your email and for when you search websites and interact online. At the bare minimum, you may want these two solutions that are offered at no charge to home computer users (i.e. not for commercial use):

Free Firewall Download: ZoneAlarm http://www.zonelabs.com/
Free Anti-Virus Download: AVG Anti-Virus http://www.grisoft.com/

PROTECT YOURSELF
Take care of yourself, too, by choosing appropriate dating sites. Seek and choose a reputable online dating service. How? Begin by asking around with friends, neighbors, co-workers and others you may know who have tried online dating, and see which places they recommend. In addition, search “online dating services” and keep a notebook of their URLs or website links, the fees, rules and regulations, complete contact information of each and any other useful information that spikes your interest. Then compare each place. Try only those places where you feel safe. Avoid the others.

So take care. Arm your computer – and yourself- with the correct tools and knowledge!

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(16) Internet Dating

2007-10-03T22:01:00.000-04:00

MAKING FRIENDS
Try to think of web dating as more a way of extending your circle of friends and not necessarily a way to find a love partner - you never know you might meet your perfect match through your new found friend.

YOU
When you describe yourself avoid a list of adjectives. Don't say you're funny, write something funny to illustrate the fact. "Improve your chances by attaching a smiling photo"

DESCRIPTION
Think about how you can describe your character strengths and weaknesses, how you spend your free time and what really matters to you in life. And be passionate about your likes and dislikes.

THE PERSONAL TOUCH
Honesty is very attractive, so say exactly what your favourite song or movie is not just "I like pop music", be specific. Say what dish you cook best, or travel destination you like to visit.
EssentialsBe clear about your "must haves", for example, if you want someone a similar age to you, write that, otherwise you'll hear from all ages.

PHOTO
You're seven times more likely to receive a response if you include one.
Adapt Often trial and error is a must. Assess the responses you are getting, and be prepared to adjust your personal profile if necessary.

SAFETY
Don't give out personal details such as your name, phone number, address or personal description.

PICK A NICKNAME
But beware of what you choose, a sexually provocative name may attract messages you may not be able to handle!

THE DATE
If you arrange to meet someone, choose a busy public place, and still don't give your personal details like your surname and address.

TAKE A FIREND
At least at the beginning of the date, and work out a signal for whether you want them to go or stay. Tell someone where you are going If you don't take a friend with you, tell them where you're going and who you're going to meet.

ESCAPE ROUTE
Have a plan to leave if you aren't enjoying yourself. For example, get a friend to phone you mid-date.

SLOW START
Don't get carried away if you like the person. You may feel like you've been friends for a while if you've been emailing a lot. Remember, it's you're first meeting and you are strangers.

TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS
If someone makes you feel uneasy, there may be a reason. So don't think you're being silly, and don't arrange a second date.

HAVE FUN
Don't worry if you're not attracted to your date, they might turn out to be a great friend instead!

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(15) Dating Online

2007-10-03T21:34:00.000-04:00

If you are longing to meet someone you've been chatting to online or you've got your first date lined up, make sure you follow these basic guidelines.

USE YOUR INSTINCTS

You can meet some fantastic people online, however, until you get to know someone well online be cautious about meeting them offline. Use your instincts to know how much personal information (for example your telephone number, address & your surname) to tell them and only agree to meet other members when you feel comfortable in doing so.

YOU'RE IN CONTROL

Online dating is a great way to meet people and one of the great benefits of dating online is that you are in control of how fast or slow the relationships you develop go. Never feel obligated to meet someone face to face and only move from purely online communication when you are ready.

START A RELATIONSHIP

At the beginning of a relationship we tend to rush head long into things and not tread carefully. Build up a trust between you and the member online and take as much time as you think you will need. Trust is earned through honourable behaviour and if you feel the other member isn't being honest with you, stop communication or be very cautious. Exchange a good few messages before meeting. You may feel you've 'clicked' immediately with someone – but the more you know about a date, the better.

ASK FOR A PHOTO

You could be having a great relationship online and think you want to meet face to face but do you know who you are meeting? Always ask for a picture if there isn't one on their profile, and pass it onto a friend. This sounds a little extreme but it's always worth someone knowing who you are with. This will also comfort you when you are meeting the member on a date - you won't need the traditional carnations in your top pocket!

SEEK VARIETY
You've probably spoken via email, and maybe moved to instant messenger but have you spoken on the phone yet? It may sound silly but someone's voice maybe a real turn off and you don't want to waste your time with someone who you know is a no-no before you've even started! Remember; only give out your personal numbers when you are ready, not when you're asked. Don't feel obliged.

MEETING UP
At some point in some of your online relationships you may decide to meet the member face to face. Always meet in a public place, like a busy pub or restaurant and always tell a friend where you are going and how long you think you'll be. Always make your own way to a date and leave on your own. And I know it sounds hard but try not to drink too much. Being 'tipsy' could impair your judgments and if you move to a different location you may not know where you've gone. Like in any situation, when meeting new people you don't know their background or real personality. When meeting up be conscious of any behaviour that makes you feel uncomfortable. If you aren't happy in their presence, make arrangements with a friend and leave. Remember that you are in control.

HELP YOURSELF
Regardless of where you meet someone, look after yourself when meeting new people. Always carry your mobile phone, and make sure you tell a friend where you are going - and if you move from the location you originally said. If you are unhappy about your date, make your polite excuses and leave. Don't worry about feeling bad or embarrassed about leaving your date, think about yourself and make your dating experiences fun.

WE'RE ALL DIFFERENT

Everyone is different and some people will be happy to ask all sorts of questions, and freely give out information. Don't forget you are in control of (and ultimately responsible for) what you say and do.

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(14) Five Top Tips For Productive Dating Profiles

2007-10-02T21:11:00.000-04:00

There’s no shortage of advice for people starting to prepare their online dating profile, or for those whose profiles haven’t yet produced results. However, the most important advice is in these top five tips:

1) Research

Before you write and post your profile, check out the competition. The last thing you want is for your headline to be exactly the same as four other people, or for your user name to be too close to others. Spend some time browsing the profiles – look at what catches your interest and what doesn’t. Then use that information to create a profile that will stand out from the crowd.

2) Clear and concise

Don’t ramble. Remember that the people who read your profile are browsing and they’ll just click away if you don’t grab their attention and tell them what they want to know. Keep it short and sweet, making sure that you’ve included all the relevant information.

3) Say what you do, not what you’re like

Don’t write a string of words describing your qualities. This isn’t a CV, it’s a personal profile. Make it personal by saying what you actually like to do and how you spend your time. Ditch the jargon, use plain English and say what you mean. Trying to look clever by using long words or complicated descriptions doesn’t get responses.

4) Update

Keep updating your profile. When you’ve done something new or exciting, say so. This not only widens the audience for your profile, by shows readers that you are still using the site and still interested in hearing from them.

5) Photographs

Posting a photo is expected on today’s online dating sites. On some sites, it’s possible to post more than one photo, but whatever the restrictions, make sure that you choose a really good photo. Ideally, it should just be of you on your own, not you with family and friends and if you can, choose a photo that illustrates you doing something you really like. Keep it recent and decent and it can go a long way to improving your chances of some genuine responses.

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(13) How To Write Your Personal Dating Ad

2007-10-02T20:24:00.000-04:00

Writing your dating ad is an important first step in the dating game. For each regular or online dating service you join, you will have to write a paragraph or two about yourself. This is the information that your potential dates will read, and the way you write it can make the difference between lots of responses and none at all. If you’ve never tried writing a personal ad before, or your previous ads haven’t generated much of a response, try using these five useful hints next time round:

1) Make a list

Before you begin writing, make a list of the things that are most important to you. Split it into two sections; words that describe you and what you are interested in, and words that describe what you’re looking for in a date. Use these lists as the basis for your personal ad and remember to focus on the things you do like rather than the things you don’t.

2) About you

What are you interested in? Theatre, music, football, cars, running – whatever it is that makes you who you are. Focus on things that you can do with your date – going to gigs, Saturday night clubbing, sailing or walking. These all give an indication of the type of person you are and the fact that you want to attract someone who shares your passions.

3) About them

This is your chance to say what you’re looking for. Whether you specify height, age, smoker or non-smoker or the interests you’d like to share, you need to be sure that the descriptions you use will attract the sort of interest you’re after.

4) Sell yourself

Your personal ad is your own personal sales brochure. Use it to tell people what you have to offer and why they should get in touch with you. Whilst you don’t want to tell all at such an early stage in the dating process, you need to give enough information to spark some interest, and hold back enough to make them want to know more. Use positive language and maybe even some humour to encourage a response.

5) Draft and check

Never just write a personal ad off the top of your head and stick it online. Always write a draft and then ask someone you trust to read it and make comments. You’re not an objective observer here, so choose someone who knows you, knows what you want and will tell you honestly if your personal ad reads well.

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(12) Young, Single Parents Dating Online

2007-10-02T00:10:00.000-04:00

Nearly 2.5 million US adults said they participated in online dating in the past 30 days, Men were slightly (8%+) more likely than women to have logged onto an online dating site in that time.

While the increased acceptance of this kind of dating might lead people to assume ‘everyone is doing it,’ in actual fact a very small percentage of adults date online.

What’s interesting is that both genders, younger and more mature adults and most income brackets are represented in a profile of online daters. Adults under 35 comprised almost one-half of all online daters, making them 59% more likely than the population as a whole to have done so. Nearly one-quarter of online daters were between 35 and 44. While only 16% of the 2.5 million adults were sole parents, they were 185%+ more likely than the average adult to have dated online.

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(11) Adult webcam dating

2007-10-01T23:45:00.000-04:00

Is a whole new dimension to online dating. Webcams and live video chat have revolutionized the internet dating scene and provided a much needed face lift to this ever booming business. The last several years, the amount of people trying online dating has grown in massive numbers and by huge popularity.

Consequently internet dating had to stay up with the times. Email and instant messaging is fine, but people wanted more… more of a connection, more intimacy and more reality. That’s where webcams came in. With the emergence of webcams we could suddenly look right into someone’s eyes and get a more realistic view of who we are chatting with. No more wondering if the profile picture submitted is real, we can see for ourselves. When we are viewing and chatting live we get a much better feel for who we are meeting. With the advances in technology today it only makes sense that we should be able to see and chat with someone before we meet them.

Adult webcam dating sites offer a whole new array of options for us. Would you like to make a new friend, flirt a little, have a hot sexual encounter or find someone to love? All of these things are not only possible with live webcam chat, but also a lot more exciting as we can make a more informed decision on persons of interest when we can see them face to face. How far you want to go with your potential partner is up to you. No matter what you are looking for, your path there will be much more intimate and real than just reading profiles, looking at pictures and sending messages.

Webcams simplify our search. With online dating live webcam chat is the way to go. The best thing of course is to explore your options. Some adult webcam dating sites offer non-nude video chat, while in others nudity is accepted and promoted. How mild or wild you are willing to be is your call, but the option is there for whatever you want to experience.

Millions have already discovered how exciting webcams can be. If you are looking to try webcam dating and chat check out a few different sites first to find the right ones for you, and then decide for yourself how adventurous you’re feeling today. You never know who you’ll meet on the other side of the lens!

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(10) What To Say On A First Date

2007-09-30T15:23:00.000-04:00

3 Things That Women Like To Talk About

Ever seen a guy with her girlfriend sitting in a restaurant on a first date, and the guy had no idea what to do, then he tried to say anything that girl might not like? Yes, it sucks. You must remember that a first date is designed to help you get to know each other on a comfortable level. It is important to focus on keeping the conversation light, casual and fun. Save the heavy stuff for later!

The other thing to remember when you are meeting up with a girl for a date is that it is not an interview. You are not applying for a job and neither is she, so do not act like it. Instead, you must talk the interesting things that can make her get interested and keep talking and laughing too.

So, the question is what to say on a first date? Here are a few tips:

(1) Talking about things such as history of places, fashion, drama, movie, scandal, and comedy. Avoid talking about her personal life, religion, politics and sex. Do not talk too much about yourself and never brag about your job, your money, or your car because these things only communicate insecurity.

(2) Talking about things that have common similar between you and her. Women respond well to men who share the same interests as they do! Some of the most successful connections are made when commenting or speaking about babies, pets, and taking advantage of various settings such as admiring and noting a fine art collection at a museum.

(3) Talking about funny things. Woman loves to be entertained. By telling a joke, you will keep her laughing and it can create a deep impression for her to remember you. Lastly, you have to remember to make her keep talking and laughing on your first date. Be a good listener when she is talking. Avoid talking about common, boring, predictable topics like school, work and family. Do not make the mistakes like other guys that are spending too much time saying about job interview questions. Once the two of you have advanced to the point where you have four or five dates behind you, then there will be plenty of time to discuss your personal lives and backgrounds.

GOOD LUCK!

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(09) Choosing Mr Right over Mr Wrong

2007-09-27T21:11:00.000-04:00

People want very much to have someone special in their life and a relationship that sizzles. They want someone they can love and count on through the toughest times. Having an ideal partner or mate is important to plenty of people, but finding the right person to have a long-term relationship can be a little difficult. The search for a partner can also mean experiences of choosing the wrong person and a few short-term relationships that don't work. Don’t let a few mistakes throw you off track. Keep your goal in mind and keep moving forward.

Knowing how to choose the right person and what to look for can mean the difference between a lot of heartaches and a happy relationship with that special person. The old adage that opposites attract is true, but when you're seeking out the perfect partner, avoid someone that you don't have anything in common with. There may be great chemistry at first and you may be very interested in someone different from you. Opposites do attract – for a while. Statistics aren't on your side for a long-term relationship with someone who is your opposite. Once you've gone through the fireworks of the first six months or so, you'll discover that your chosen partner lives a very different life from yours and you won't be compatible.

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(08) Ever tried flirting with a stranger?

2007-09-26T20:58:00.000-04:00

Being able to strike up conversations with complete strangers comes naturally. Whether it be the cute guy who serves you your morning coffee or the sexy cocktail waitress who you're desperate to get her number, some folks are born with that innate flirtatious quality that emanates from their every pore, giving them the ability to flirt, flirt, flirt with anything that has two legs and a heartbeat.

The key, of course, is knowing how to lean towards flirtatious rather than forceful. No matter how undeniably daunting flirting with strangers might be, apparently we shouldn't shy away from it just yet. It can actually be good for our health. Interaction with strangers could make us happier than money or status because, when we meet new people, we put our best selves forward, which does wonders to boost our mood ...

Flirting has a lot to do with a person's attitude. "Don't be afraid to take risks and don't worry about being rejected. Smile at people, specially at the ones you flirt with. It will make you so much more approachable. Friendly people with a smile draw others into the conversation. Maintain a prolonged eye contact, however don't intimidate your potential flirt by staring them into oblivion."

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(07) Long Distance Relationship

2007-09-25T21:39:00.000-04:00

You meet someone online. She's terrific. He wants exactly the same things in a relationship than you do. You've spoken on the phone and the conversation lasted for hours. But you haven't met in person yet ... because you live thousands of miles apart. Is there any point in pursuing this online relationship? Yes and no.

Whether or not a long distance relationship is a good idea depends entirely on the two people in the relationship and the things that each seek from a relationship. If your desires and goals are aligned, the distance may not matter so much. If you're both just looking for a fun fling that's a nice distraction online and might lead to a great weekend in Vegas one day, then there's no problem with the fact that the online connection is happening across the miles.

Alternatively, the online long distance connection can work if you're both looking to settle down and at least one of you is willing to relocate. If that's the case, you should certainly make plans to meet in person - more than once - before the two of you make that move. But if you each have that as a goal in mind and you look honestly at whether or not you'll be compatible, then the long distance connection could work.

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(06) What Women Want to See in Your Profile

2007-09-24T20:52:00.000-04:00

Face it guys: When it comes to knowing what women want, a good-sized percentage of the time, we're pretty dense. But when it comes to online dating, our density levels enter the red zone — mainly because we have no idea how our material is going over.

We have no visual or audio clues. We don't know if the words we wrote are making her laugh or groan. I'm essentially as dense as the rest of you, but I spend more time thinking about online dating than the average bear, and being an altruistic chap.

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(05) Dating Do's and Don'ts

2007-09-23T09:43:00.000-04:00

Have a plan and be creative.

Most girls love it when guys put some thought into their time together. There are a variety of options available, and what you choose should be catered to the tastes of both of you. Try to have fun. Arrive on time. Not too early, not too late, right on time.

Focus your attention on her. Ask questions about herself, her work, her interest and her hobbies. Smile and maintain gentle eye contact as the other person responds, focusing all of your attention on what she's saying, and respond with respect for her opinions. Be honest and upfront about who you are and what you stand for. Don't pretend to be someone you're not. The truth will always out eventually. Don't drink to much. Drinking too much will likely bring out some bad sides to your personality.

If you've opted to go for a meal choose what you eat carefully, you'll never pull off spaghetti elegantly.

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(04) How to Ask A Woman Out

2007-09-16T08:30:00.000-04:00

Most men have their own way with ladies, but the rest of us could use a few pointers, even if we won't admit it. No man wants to come off sounding cheesy and every guy wants to avoid being turned down. Here, the women will share some ideas for approaching that love interest in your life.

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(03) Better safe than sorry when it comes to online dating

2007-09-16T08:16:00.000-04:00

A woman posts her profile on an online dating site, and is immediately bombarded with e-mails from would-be suitors. She is interested in some individuals who contacted her, but is wary about how to proceed.

She is rightly concerned that some people using online dating sites are not honest about their backgrounds or their intentions. Some may even be married, looking for a casual "hookup."

Just like conventional dating, using caution and discernment when beginning an online relationship is necessary. Some basic safety tips can help prevent an online dating experience from turning disastrous.

"Online dating in general is a very safe means to date when you compare it to any other dating medium.

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(02) Dating via the internet

2007-09-14T20:54:00.000-04:00

Believe it or not, there are some men and women who have not ventured into internet dating yet. By not exploring this avenue, these people are missing an important avenue for meeting wonderful men and women like themselves that are having a hard time meeting someone decent to date through more traditional means and their normal daily activities.

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Get A Call to go out on a Date

2007-09-14T20:17:00.000-04:00

Have you ever seen on television shows how a girl that's going on a date with someone new will have a friend of hers do a check-in call? The call gives the girl the chance to make an exit from a date that's not going well because she has the excuse of "oh no, so-and-so just called and is having such-and-such problem and I really need to go help her".What do you do if you don't have the kind of friends that will make those calls to you? Or if you're too ashamed to tell your friends that you want that kind of out from your date because they think of you as the gal who can be direct in any situation? Well, if you really want the option of the emergency call but you don't want to get a friend to do it, there's a service that you can use instead.

Getmooh (which stands for "get me out of here") lets you input your phone number and time to call. And it lets you select from a number of pre-recorded message so in case your date is listening in, the call will sound real. You can get a message from the babysitter, a call from a roommate who forgot the keys to get in the house or even a booty call.Just remember that your date is probably going to know that you're lying. And if he or she doesn't and wants to have a second date, you're going to have to play the honest card or avoid your favorite IM programs and dating sites.

(01) Why Use Online Dating

2007-09-13T21:17:00.000-04:00

Why not?!

Millions of singles just don't have the spare time to concentrate their efforts on dating. More often than not, singletons lead hectic lifestyles catching up with friends, trying to keep fit and working longer and longer hours. Where's the time to go out and meet new people and widen social circles?

Internet dating has understandably become big business as more and more people realise the benefits it can bring in terms of meeting other singles. Attitudes have changed too, with a more 'Go For It' attitude about, singletons have become more open-minded to dating, and aren't so scared off by a helping hand in the form of a dating event or a dating web site. In fact, all things dating seems to be becoming the 'in-thing' to do, no longer for just the desperate, over 40's, and those who don't get out much.

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