Monday, December 24, 2007

(36) CHRISTMAS DATE WITH SOMEONE YOU MET ONLINE

You got together over the weekend for a pre-Christmas date with someone that you met online. You'd gone out a few times before but you didn't think that things were serious. It didn't even occur to you that you might be at the point of exchanging Christmas gifts. But then you showed up and your date had a gift in hand. This can be a really uncomfortable moment but it doesn't have to be. If you're left standing there empty-handed, you may feel guilty for not having thought to be something. You might feel embarassed that you didn't hold up your end of the gift exchange. But the fact of the matter is that your date felt compelled to get you something for the holiday and that has nothing to do with whether or not you bought something in return.

The thing to do in this situation is mind your manners. Say thank you. Ask your date if you should open the gift there or at home on Christmas morning. Then go on with the rest of the date. At the end of the date, say thanks again for the thoughtfulness of getting the gift. Don't apologize for not having gotten something for your date.

Once you're home, you can think about whether or not you want to do something about the gift or just let sleeping dogs lie. There are a few things that you might want to do. Scenario one is that the gift is way too personal for where you thought the relationship was at and it warrants a talk about the relationship in a few days. Scenario two is that the gift is nice and you like it but that's it; in which case you say thanks again when you go on another date. Scenario three is that you really do wish that you'd bought something for your date and you get something belatedly to make up for it.

And what if you're the one who bought a gift and didn't receive anything? Hopefully you bought it because you wanted to do so, not because you were expecting something in exchange. Don't act awkward or weird about it. Just explain that you thought of something that you wanted to give your date.Christmas gift exchanges are awkward for people who have just started dating. Hell, they can be awkward for people who have been together a long time. But they don't have to be. Be polite and kind to one another; that's what the season is all about.

Friday, December 21, 2007

(35) CHRISTMAS WEEKEND DATE IDEAS

Christmas weekend is a terrific weekend to go on a date. It gives you a chance to have a bit of romance this holiday season while still leaving Christmas Eve and Christmas Day free. This means you can keep plans with the friends and family who have played such an important role in your life without having to miss out on the fun of holiday dating.

Here are some Christmas weekend date ideas you might want to try:-

Looking at the Christmas lights. If you know someone from online well enough to feel safe in their car, go for a late night drive to look at the lights sparkling on houses in neighborhoods near you. This brings out the magic of Christmas and gives you ample time for conversation. If you don't know anyone well enough for that, you can meet in a shopping district or busy neighborhood and walk around to see the lights.

CHRISTMAS BAKING
Again, if you've gone on a few dates with someone from online and you're comfortable with being alone in a house with them, take advantage of the chance to do some holiday baking together this weekend. Chocolate is an aphrodisiac after all.

SHOPPING
You both probably have some gifts left to buy before Tuesday so why not do that shopping together? It sure beats battling the crowds on your end. Keep the stores you go to at a minimum so that the time is enjoyed rather than stressful.

ICE SKATING
What a terrific winter date! There are ice skating rinks set up all over the nation right now so get out there and get your shaky legs into the dating pond.

MEET FOR HOT CHOCOLATE
If you're going on a date with someone new, forego the usual coffee date and get hot chocolate instead. Even if it's not your normal cup of tea, it's something holiday-ish that will make the weekend feel more special.

EXPLORE SOMETHING FROM YOUR PAST
Yes, the past can be loaded but you've got lots of great memories that you can share with someone you're dating. Christmas is a time for a little nostalgia. Go do something that reminds you of a time you loved. It might get even better when it's re-visited with a new date.

Thursday, December 6, 2007

(34) WHY YOU SHOULD GIVE ONLINE DATING A TRY

Online dating sites vary. Online dating is simply a dating service that is possible to use on the Internet. As more people get online, there are companies ever more eager to jump on the dating business. Joining a free adult dating site for women and men is about getting to know someone and then seeing if you enjoy spending time with them, so bear this in mind when you online dating give a try.

Whether you are actively dating or just getting back into dating, online dating can provide a world full of opportunities. Take your time with the process. Don’t let anyone rush you. You are not committed to meeting anyone. You need to choose from the numerous sites that offer online dating and personals. There are many online dating sites that have very short sign-up procedures and others you have to answer lots of questions. If you are joining a dating site, take the time to say something about yourself, your lifestyle, your interests and the type of person you’re hoping to meet.

If you have recently become single what better way to meet new people than to go online and meet more people. You’ll get many opinions about the effectiveness of online dating. In order to enjoy and succeed at online dating you have to remember a few rules.