Sunday, September 30, 2007

(10) What To Say On A First Date

3 Things That Women Like To Talk About


Ever seen a guy with her girlfriend sitting in a restaurant on a first date, and the guy had no idea what to do, then he tried to say anything that girl might not like? Yes, it sucks. You must remember that a first date is designed to help you get to know each other on a comfortable level. It is important to focus on keeping the conversation light, casual and fun. Save the heavy stuff for later!

The other thing to remember when you are meeting up with a girl for a date is that it is not an interview. You are not applying for a job and neither is she, so do not act like it. Instead, you must talk the interesting things that can make her get interested and keep talking and laughing too.

So, the question is what to say on a first date? Here are a few tips:
(1) Talking about things such as history of places, fashion, drama, movie, scandal, and comedy. Avoid talking about her personal life, religion, politics and sex. Do not talk too much about yourself and never brag about your job, your money, or your car because these things only communicate insecurity.

(2) Talking about things that have common similar between you and her. Women respond well to men who share the same interests as they do! Some of the most successful connections are made when commenting or speaking about babies, pets, and taking advantage of various settings such as admiring and noting a fine art collection at a museum.

(3) Talking about funny things. Woman loves to be entertained. By telling a joke, you will keep her laughing and it can create a deep impression for her to remember you. Lastly, you have to remember to make her keep talking and laughing on your first date. Be a good listener when she is talking. Avoid talking about common, boring, predictable topics like school, work and family. Do not make the mistakes like other guys that are spending too much time saying about job interview questions. Once the two of you have advanced to the point where you have four or five dates behind you, then there will be plenty of time to discuss your personal lives and backgrounds.

GOOD LUCK!

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Thursday, September 27, 2007

(09) Choosing Mr Right over Mr Wrong

People want very much to have someone special in their life and a relationship that sizzles. They want someone they can love and count on through the toughest times. Having an ideal partner or mate is important to plenty of people, but finding the right person to have a long-term relationship can be a little difficult. The search for a partner can also mean experiences of choosing the wrong person and a few short-term relationships that don't work. Don’t let a few mistakes throw you off track. Keep your goal in mind and keep moving forward.

Knowing how to choose the right person and what to look for can mean the difference between a lot of heartaches and a happy relationship with that special person. The old adage that opposites attract is true, but when you're seeking out the perfect partner, avoid someone that you don't have anything in common with. There may be great chemistry at first and you may be very interested in someone different from you. Opposites do attract – for a while. Statistics aren't on your side for a long-term relationship with someone who is your opposite. Once you've gone through the fireworks of the first six months or so, you'll discover that your chosen partner lives a very different life from yours and you won't be compatible.

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Wednesday, September 26, 2007

(08) Ever tried flirting with a stranger?

Being able to strike up conversations with complete strangers comes naturally. Whether it be the cute guy who serves you your morning coffee or the sexy cocktail waitress who you're desperate to get her number, some folks are born with that innate flirtatious quality that emanates from their every pore, giving them the ability to flirt, flirt, flirt with anything that has two legs and a heartbeat.

The key, of course, is knowing how to lean towards flirtatious rather than forceful. No matter how undeniably daunting flirting with strangers might be, apparently we shouldn't shy away from it just yet. It can actually be good for our health. Interaction with strangers could make us happier than money or status because, when we meet new people, we put our best selves forward, which does wonders to boost our mood ...

Flirting has a lot to do with a person's attitude. "Don't be afraid to take risks and don't worry about being rejected. Smile at people, specially at the ones you flirt with. It will make you so much more approachable. Friendly people with a smile draw others into the conversation. Maintain a prolonged eye contact, however don't intimidate your potential flirt by staring them into oblivion."

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Tuesday, September 25, 2007

(07) Long Distance Relationship

You meet someone online. She's terrific. He wants exactly the same things in a relationship than you do. You've spoken on the phone and the conversation lasted for hours. But you haven't met in person yet ... because you live thousands of miles apart. Is there any point in pursuing this online relationship? Yes and no.

Whether or not a long distance relationship is a good idea depends entirely on the two people in the relationship and the things that each seek from a relationship. If your desires and goals are aligned, the distance may not matter so much. If you're both just looking for a fun fling that's a nice distraction online and might lead to a great weekend in Vegas one day, then there's no problem with the fact that the online connection is happening across the miles.

Alternatively, the online long distance connection can work if you're both looking to settle down and at least one of you is willing to relocate. If that's the case, you should certainly make plans to meet in person - more than once - before the two of you make that move. But if you each have that as a goal in mind and you look honestly at whether or not you'll be compatible, then the long distance connection could work.

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Monday, September 24, 2007

(06) What Women Want to See in Your Profile

Face it guys: When it comes to knowing what women want, a good-sized percentage of the time, we're pretty dense. But when it comes to online dating, our density levels enter the red zone — mainly because we have no idea how our material is going over.

We have no visual or audio clues. We don't know if the words we wrote are making her laugh or groan. I'm essentially as dense as the rest of you, but I spend more time thinking about online dating than the average bear, and being an altruistic chap.

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Sunday, September 23, 2007

(05) Dating Do's and Don'ts

Have a plan and be creative.

Most girls love it when guys put some thought into their time together. There are a variety of options available, and what you choose should be catered to the tastes of both of you. Try to have fun. Arrive on time. Not too early, not too late, right on time.

Focus your attention on her. Ask questions about herself, her work, her interest and her hobbies. Smile and maintain gentle eye contact as the other person responds, focusing all of your attention on what she's saying, and respond with respect for her opinions. Be honest and upfront about who you are and what you stand for. Don't pretend to be someone you're not. The truth will always out eventually. Don't drink to much. Drinking too much will likely bring out some bad sides to your personality.

If you've opted to go for a meal choose what you eat carefully, you'll never pull off spaghetti elegantly.

Sunday, September 16, 2007

(04) How to Ask A Woman Out

Most men have their own way with ladies, but the rest of us could use a few pointers, even if we won't admit it. No man wants to come off sounding cheesy and every guy wants to avoid being turned down. Here, the women will share some ideas for approaching that love interest in your life.

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(03) Better safe than sorry when it comes to online dating

A woman posts her profile on an online dating site, and is immediately bombarded with e-mails from would-be suitors. She is interested in some individuals who contacted her, but is wary about how to proceed.

She is rightly concerned that some people using online dating sites are not honest about their backgrounds or their intentions. Some may even be married, looking for a casual "hookup."

Just like conventional dating, using caution and discernment when beginning an online relationship is necessary. Some basic safety tips can help prevent an online dating experience from turning disastrous.

"Online dating in general is a very safe means to date when you compare it to any other dating medium.

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Friday, September 14, 2007

(02) Dating via the internet

Believe it or not, there are some men and women who have not ventured into internet dating yet. By not exploring this avenue, these people are missing an important avenue for meeting wonderful men and women like themselves that are having a hard time meeting someone decent to date through more traditional means and their normal daily activities.

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Get A Call to go out on a Date

Have you ever seen on television shows how a girl that's going on a date with someone new will have a friend of hers do a check-in call? The call gives the girl the chance to make an exit from a date that's not going well because she has the excuse of "oh no, so-and-so just called and is having such-and-such problem and I really need to go help her".What do you do if you don't have the kind of friends that will make those calls to you? Or if you're too ashamed to tell your friends that you want that kind of out from your date because they think of you as the gal who can be direct in any situation? Well, if you really want the option of the emergency call but you don't want to get a friend to do it, there's a service that you can use instead.


Getmooh (which stands for "get me out of here") lets you input your phone number and time to call. And it lets you select from a number of pre-recorded message so in case your date is listening in, the call will sound real. You can get a message from the babysitter, a call from a roommate who forgot the keys to get in the house or even a booty call.Just remember that your date is probably going to know that you're lying. And if he or she doesn't and wants to have a second date, you're going to have to play the honest card or avoid your favorite IM programs and dating sites.

Thursday, September 13, 2007

(01) Why Use Online Dating

Why not?!

Millions of singles just don't have the spare time to concentrate their efforts on dating. More often than not, singletons lead hectic lifestyles catching up with friends, trying to keep fit and working longer and longer hours. Where's the time to go out and meet new people and widen social circles?

Internet dating has understandably become big business as more and more people realise the benefits it can bring in terms of meeting other singles. Attitudes have changed too, with a more 'Go For It' attitude about, singletons have become more open-minded to dating, and aren't so scared off by a helping hand in the form of a dating event or a dating web site. In fact, all things dating seems to be becoming the 'in-thing' to do, no longer for just the desperate, over 40's, and those who don't get out much.

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